I know how much pain bullying can cause, I was bullied and picked on growing up alot, (to me it seemed like I was constantly picked on or bullied) by other students. I had very few friends growing up do to my ADD and getting picked on so much. The bulleying wasn't so bad, but getting picked on was horrible. My last 3 years of HS at a Private Lutheran were terrible, I didn't have one single friend in HS then. I still don't have alot of close friends even now. But I do know that because of all the bad stuff that happened to me that I'm a much nicer and better person, (I'm not recomending getting picked on and bullied to make people better, I'm not doing that) but I do know that I'm a much more friendly and easier to get along with because of that.
But I turned around and picked on and bullied my 2 younger brothers, who didn't deserve it at all. Since my life was a living you-know-what, I made their life a living you-know-what. Thankfully they still love me and have forgiven me for what I did to them several years ago, but that still doesn't make what I did right. I just didn't know how to tell my parents about all the crap I was going through growing up. I was also in the Navy for almost 8 years after HS, then was when getting picked on was a blessing and not a curse. I was immune to peer pressure to go out and drink and do alot of bad things that some guys in the Navy enjoy doing. No amount of peer pressure or anything other pressure put on my was going to get me to something stupid (just like alot of guys I worked with did when they were in the Navy, I could tell some very funny stories about what guys I knew did, but that would take alot of space here). But I can look back at being picked on and bullied as a blessing in some ways. But having a totally crappy social life and dating life isn't one of them.
"For God so loved the world so that He gave His one and only son and whoseoever believes in Him will be saved".