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child being bullied at school


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Joined: Feb 06, 2007
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Posted Feb 06, 2007 at 6:03:44 PM
Subject: child being bullied at school

My 13 yr old son has oral/verbal dyspraxia, he recently had to transfer to new school. New school has a real bully that does not bully my son but does 2 other boys. My son naturally wants to defend the 2 boys being bullied and has asked me what I think he should do? I of course would like to whip the bully myself but that is not how things are done........I could really use some advise on how to advise him of what to do. He has mentioned these boys being bullied many times since starting at this school Jan.3, 2007. Today he blocked the bullies kick to one of the boys. I have a feeling this will most likely only get worse if some sort of intervention is not done, it is bound to escalate to violence in the form of retaliation against the bully by my son in defense of the 2 boys. Please give any suggestions, advise, opinions that any of you may have parent or child. Really need the help.

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geodob
Joined Feb 06, 2005
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Posted: Feb 07, 2007 5:48:57 AM

Is their any chance that you could contact the other 2 boys parents, and then go and see the principal, all together?

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Goodysbaby
Joined Nov 03, 2004
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Posted: Feb 16, 2007 1:21:38 PM

What is the school's policy in the student handbook say on bulling? There should be a laid out plan on who the first contact should be whether the teacher or the counselor. If not I would contact the guidance counselor for their advice and put a bug in their ear so this child can be watched by the staff.

For the most part support staff are more visible in halls and community places to be aware of these situations.

Good Luck! I hope this helps your son.

Shel

Shel If your not kicking hard enough your not making waves!

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Wonderwoman
Joined Mar 13, 2007
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Posted: Mar 13, 2007 10:48:29 PM

Bullying is no longer tolerated by any administration, go to the higher ups if the school does not want to intervene, I bet something gets done real quick. If your son continues getting involved I am afraid it could become a problem for him, he might kick the other kids butt, but will wind up getting in more trouble then the bully.

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magic07
Joined Apr 17, 2007
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Posted: Apr 17, 2007 10:24:21 PM

I agree. Get the attention of the parents and the school administration. Anyway, I am touched by your son's camaraderie.

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g00db0y
Joined Jan 03, 2008
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Posted: Jan 03, 2008 5:16:32 AM

I totally agree with Wonderwoman. Bullying can not be tolerated.
I had the same situation before with my 6 years old daugther. She just cannot handle seeing her friend being bullied at school. But suggesting her to hit back the bully also not a good idea.
At that time I had not idea how to tell a 6 years to handle that kind of situation untill I found a book (Solving The Bullying Problem)
that discussing this matter.

[Modified by: g00db0y on January 03, 2008 05:30 AM]

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