I've been getting a lot of good advice from everyone. I hope that you can give some advice for my sister. She has two children. The oldest has Aspergers and has been given nothing but grief from the schools (he's now in High School) to the point that they needed to get a layer. Her younger son, who's in 7th grade, appears to have Dysgraphia. She is afraid to get a label put on him, especially since he's planning to join the army for his college degree. Any suggestions for her?