No matter what you choose to do, make sure you document these violations of Section 504 in writing to the sped dir. of your school and copy in principal and superintendent.
You might also want to consider requesting in your letter that they send you their Section 504 grievance procedure, as you believe that your child has been denied FAPE as a result of these violations. I would also ask for a meeting to discuss how to resolve the failures that resulted from their violations. I would send this letter first, or better yet, take it to the school and have the secretary stamp it 'received' and ask for a copy of it before you leave.
Accountability brings compliance.
Diana
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