My son has been in spec ed since 1st grade but always we heard things like he is lazy, unmotiviated, don’t care, is disturbed. For two years now we have not heard much of anything and have been pleased with his progress. My son decided he wanted to write a note of thanks to his teachers for the last 2 years, it does not sound like a note from a “bad child” to me. I share it because I want you to know there are teachers who can and do make a difference. Here it is:
I entered your room quietly took a seat shoulders rolled and head slumped. I thought to myself here we go again another year of not understanding another year of not being understood. I would withdrawal into my own dream world where things were kind, comfortable, friendly and familiar. Then something amazing happened there was a light touch on my shoulder, no yelling, no bad comments, just a light touch then someone asking do you need help understanding? I was dazed, bewildered, did this person really care? You were sure to look at me and sure you had my attention then in a way I could understand explain what was going on. A light went off in my head all of a sudden it made sense, could it be I am not stupid after all. For two years you were there for me, to help explain things, to help organize me, to help rally me, and support me. As I leave your room for the last time I want you to remember me for who I have become. Remember the child who entered your room, the man who left, and how I got there. Teaching may not be a career of glory but it does have its heroes. I have been fortunate here to meet not only one but many. I would of liked to write a personalized note to you all but it is difficult so hope you all don’t mind getting the same thoughts. On those days when you think to yourself “what am I doing here anyway?” I want you to remember you do make a difference. What would happen if there were not teachers who took the time to understand us kids with learning differences. We would not only enter rooms with our shoulders slumped and our heads down we would go through life that way. We may even wind up in prison or dead. You should be proud of yourselves for choosing such a noble career and remember there are students who thank you. This is what this whole note is about a thank you, a thank you for being there and may you continue to positively influence young lives.
Not a bad note from a kid who “needs to medicated and counseled.” I hope sharing this note shows you that you can make a difference when you care.
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Yes he has really matured a lot over the last two years and has completely changed attitude. Lucky for him is that not only is he LD (dysgraphia, sensory intergration dysfunctoin, lisp) he is also gifted. He has always been good at knowing what to say. He wants to be an author when he grows up and I think he can do it.
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This is a post from Proud mom who is a friend of mine who does not have computer access. She often comes and borrows my computer. I told her how great this BB is. She has really been enjoying getting to share her story.
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I anticipate his books. And I anticipate they’ll inspire my son ,almost 7 and possibly gifted , in ten years time. But I wouldn’t rule out politician, newsreader, lecturer etc… I think we forget sometimes that Non LD kids get on heroin, go to jail, don’t finish college…. The wrong attitude can do more harm than a LD.
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Greetings,
What a beautiful and amazing letter! It brought tears of joy for your son and tears of hope for my daughter. Thank you so much for sharing it with us!
Blessings, momo
Re: "Bad child" or not-long sorry
I really enjoyed reading your message, as well as your son’s letter. It warmed my heart to know the differences teachers make, as well as the improvements the students work hard to accomplish. Your son is very lucky to have found teachers who were willing to reach out and extend to him that “extra help”, as well as a mother who cares so deeply. Many times, it is that support system that gives the students the initial encouragement and acceptance. Your son benefitted greatly from that, and went on to get a good education, something that everyone deserves!
It sounds like the biggest change in your son is attitude. If he can hold on to that there’s nothing he can’t do. What employer wouldn’t prefer someone capable of writing such a letter even with accommodations over the average ” who cares?” generation X’er?