It sounds like this student has a problem with expressive language; he is receiving and processing information correctly, he has trouble communicating what he knows.

From your comments, I am concerned that this private, independent school is not equipped to provide the necessary special education tutoring and accommodations.

You note several possible reasons why your daughter might not have successful social interaction skills. Her ADD, OCD, and lack of confidence might be the issues. Start with the school counselor.

You call it dyslexia. School systems call it learning disabilities. It is still the same problem.

Dear Diana,

You should consult court administration regarding any formal action in relation to a perceived disability.

Most of the difficulties you describe suggest what is called executive function disorder — difficulty with organization of materials, tasks, and time.

Yes, she can be helped. She needs a diagnosis.

You mentioned that your daughter retains information from TV shows and comic books, so you may want to consider using multimedia to help your daughter learn new material.

Your story is sad to hear. It would be important at this time to have your son evaluated. He needs a psycho-educational evaluation.